chill....

A lot of people need to take a chill pill. And by that i mean 1/2 of the worlds population....we really need to sit back and mind our own business and let people be....as long as they ain't hurting us or anybody. I know this is going to cause an out roar and a lot of people will not agree with me but this is my blog and i will write whatever i feel like writing (hiss...lol)....but i have a list called what the big deal and here it is

WHAT IS THE BIG DEAL IF

- you see two men kissing in public....no be your business and they ain't kissing you. So move ur ass along and mind ur f-ing business

- a man decides to dress as a woman and vice versa....yes for some it is different and borderline craze. I will not lie coming from a very conservative upbringing this was unseen, and once in a while when i see it, i do a double take but in the end, no be my business...as long as they don't deceive me into thinking they are who they say they are and i end up having sex with them...none of my business....so i will do a double look...maybe a triple but i will move my ass along

- someone abuses your GOD.....YES this goes out to the religious ones and not so religious ones who like to pretend they are religious when this happens. Yes it is insulting, yes it is not the sensitive thing to do but if God could create the world, create you and me, destroy the world with water and if God is truly all powerful let him deal with them. At the end of the day we are called to show love and not hate....and i think the key here is show love to those who hate you and your God. At the end of the day love is what will win people over to your God not arguing or putting death threats out. Once upon a time ago i used to carry Catholicism in my head, i felt like i had been informally ordained protector of the religion.....i would argue with protestants who insulted my religion to the point of having a boxing match. Now i can say i don't ever get into such argument...i pray for them, show them love and i know that God is in control. So yes if you see a group on facebook with the title , or F all Christians, or F all Muslims.....move on bro, pray for that person and let God do his work.....cos at the end of the day no  be your business

- chris brown boasts after getting his Grammy....random i know but free him jor ( let him be). He worked hard and he deserves bragging rights. I am no fan of this guy but people need to take a chill pill and leave him and his ex riri alone. Yes what happened years ago was wrong. And yes, he made some half hearted video on youtube apologising but riri has forgiven him. Its time some people do....in essence free him jor

- a black man finds love with a white chick and vice versa....yes this is a hot topic especially for a lot of black females out there. Black men are not out property and vice versa.....let people procreate who they want to procreate....free them jo.....(  abeg people we need to understand that people can find love wherever.....and just because he is a fine black brother doesn't mean he belongs to you).

- i wear weaves and extensions. Mind your own business...i mean it don't touch my hair, don't discuss my hair for 30 minutes....freeeeeeeee me...lol.....

I have run out of stuff to say, but we get the gist....there are somethings that are absolutely big deals like
- drug abuse
- thievery aka ibori-ing.....( new word people....lol....or abacha-ing)
- murder
-terrorism
- harming others
- prostitution (not for some people but i think it is a big deal)
- ethnic cleansing
- racism
- fraud.....the list goes on


xoxo .....( if u dont like what i wrote...hiss lol....freeeee me jor....)

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