to old for rubbish

hello peeps..... OK so yesterday i saw a friend at winners and decided not to say hi....can u guess what i was thinking....why did i not say hi...maybe i am just a blaady snob...or maybe i was in a hurry...or maybe i hate my friend...but guess what...u can only guess...u will never know for sure what i was thinking.....so unless u have been magically gifted with the gift of decoding people, or reading minds...or u a psychic....u do not know...and will never know.....


so this entry is not about me...i was just trying to make a point...that we really cannot assume what a person is thinking from how they behave...u see yesterday i was talking to a friend and she told me that she broke up with her boyfriend...because he was acting weired...and been very distant and mean to her....and she said something that well...inspired this entry...she said "i am too old for this...i am too old for games and i am too old to try and decode all his signals....and that is so true...maybe when i was sixteen i would try and understand what a guy i like or am dating is thinking....if he does not call me....well i would tell myself that he got his phone missing, if he does not text me...then maybe his hands were cut off...or his network was having problems....maybe he sent a text and something was wrong with my phone....i would probably turn my phone off and on...and tell my friend to send me a text....and yeah...if he does not show up for a date...maybe something awful happened like aliens kidnapped him to the planet of the really good guys (yeah...a good guy is really hard to find...i think the have been all kidnapped by aliens...lol...). so yeah....that was me...right up till i was in my 20s....maybe a year ago....n heres a classic one....a classic lie that we have all been told by our fairy godmothers....the same ones that told us that Santa was real....if a guy is mean to you...it means he really likes you...he is just scared of his emotions for you...so in turn he acts mean...i say....BULLSHIT....the next time my fairy mother comes around i would be sure to set things straight with her...

so my dears....this is the truth...if somebody likes you...u will know...and you would never have to be left guessing...trying to crack your brain open...he will always call you just to hear your voice, he will text you all the time..until his hands start bleeding...he will always be in time for dates and will always want to spend all his time with you....in one shot sentence.....he will adore you...worship the ground you walk on.....so stop trying to decode...u not psychic...

so next time u encounter a guy with mixed messages even after you have showed him that u really like him...walk  away...because if you like me and my friend....you too old for such rubbish.....

xoxo.....lovies